a little q & a

So...it's been a while since our last update.  Life has been pretty hectic, our days have been full, we're still getting used to writing blog posts together...AND, we've been up to our armpits in homework for the home study.  Lately, much of our "free" time is chewed up reading adoption-related books and working through online studies.  We are getting really close to having our homework done - so that's something to be thankful for!

One of the things I (Josh) wanted to do was to interview my wife (Jaclyn) to give all of our friends, our family (and the occasional random person who drops by) a sense of what is happening and what we are learning about at this time.

Q:  It's been a few weeks since the last update, what is the current status regarding the adoption process?

A: Our final home study appointment is tomorrow (Thursday).  We are completing our “homework” for the Michigan Adoption agency (reading books, completing online courses, etc.).  After this process is complete, everything gets sent to our Placing Agency in Indiana.  After they compile the paperwork, we pay our first ½ of the fees and then we wait to be matched with our son. 

Q: What is God speaking to you at this time?A: Patience.  I am at peace with the process and timeline. 

Q: Any concerns right now?A: I am praying for financial peace.  I don’t want our children to think that we are poor but I also want them to learn the difference between need and want.  We have been emphasizing that we are choosing to spend our money in different ways, but it is always difficult to say "no" to our children. 

Q: What are you celebrating?A: Our children are so excited about adopting.  It is wonderful to see them share with their friends that they will have a brother from Lesotho. 

Q: How do you respond when people ask you - "Why not foster care?  There are 4000+ orphans in Michigan, and it's less expensive than international adoption?"
A: We feel called by God to adopt internationally and not domestically through foster care.  It is what it is.  J